News To Be Thankful For?

I still haven't heard back from H, the financial person at Reprogenetics, so I shot an email off to my Reprogenetics genetic counselor D to see if she could give me an update. H is usually really good about getting back to me, she must be on vacation or out of the office because she's never had me wait more than a couple days. I know they won't release my results until they're paid so she's going to have to get back to me eventually to get my credit card.

Lucky for me, D is in the office and she got back to me pretty much right away. I asked her to confirm that she'd received the samples since I had only heard from Dr. D about that, and asking whether testing had begun because we can't wait for some good news.

The message I got back basically said:

I know the waiting is hard. We've started testing,  it will take the full 15 days. You'll know on 11/27.

I know Garfield. I know.

For those who didn't catch that bit at the end, 11/27 is Thanksgiving. When we will have all sorts of people in the house. We will be getting either really good news or really bad news with a house full of people. The waiting is so tough,  I can't wait to find out, but this is not how I wanted to do it.

Plus, I'm sure Dr. D won't be working on Thanksgiving. If he's not in the office, we don't get our results. Reprogenetics is sending them directly to Dr. D not to us, since the sensitive information should be explained by a doctor yadda yadda. I'd honestly rather they just email them so I don't have to talk to anyone if the results are bad but that isn't an option.

E and I wanted time to ourselves to process and deal with the results. We didn't want to share them with the few family members who know, especially if they're not good, until we'd digested them and figured out our next move. Honestly we really wish they didn't know the testing was going on since their questions/expectations/hopes/certainty really make us feel worse and not better. I don't think they realize how difficult the process is, how often people end up with no healthy embryos to transfer. Even with 6 to test, we could very easily have no healthies and their certainty that all our embryos will be healthy and everything will be roses and sunshine feels shallow.

Maybe we'll get lucky and we'll get wonderful news early. I'm still hopeful that our embryos will be healthy, that we'll have 6 frosty babies to be thankful for this Thanksgiving. But it would be really nice if we could get our results without an audience.

Black Friday Deals

I was going to post about Thanksgiving this year but it ended up being pretty underwhelming. I look forward to spending time with family and cooking delicious food but this year's meal was just a little too drama filled for us to enjoy it. We enjoyed having my grandma here to visit and celebrate with, but I think this will be the last year that we attend someone else's Thanksgiving instead of hosting our own.  So, instead, we move right along to Black Friday.

This year, like the year before, E and I went Black Friday shopping. We didn't wait in line for hours or drive around to a million different stores, just headed to Target 20 minutes before it opened, waited in line, and went in. Amidst reports of people trampling each other, fighting and pepper spray, I found all of the Thanksgiving shoppers to be surprisingly pleasant and polite. A number of them had young children with them, babies in carriages or toddlers in tow, and everyone was patient, didn't push, and took turns. Aside from a little bit of excited speed walking when the doors first opened, I didn't see any of the nationally reported crazy shopping and had no regrets.

Best Buy TV Score

Coupled with some shopping on the actual Black Friday and following weekend, E and I finally scored the TV that we've been waiting to buy since last year. E is pretty much in love with it, and I'm glad we waited for it to come down in price. My family also got a beautiful new TV for the living room, we picked up a space for my sister L's new boyfriend J, and we all picked up some great blu rays, clothes and other holiday goodies. We're really happy with our holiday shopping this year, and pretty pleased with the Los Angeles Black Friday shoppers who were so courteous and considerate. 

I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving and got to enjoy some fun holiday shopping this Black Friday/Cyber Monday/Shopping Craziness!

Our new TV in our messy room

Happy Holidays 2011

Somehow it feels like this year has gone by at lightening speed. Like I was writing this exact post only last week about the new Hanukkah star topper we got for our tree. Except now, the new star is the old star, E and I have been married for over 8 months, we have Milou, many new babies have been born to happy friends, I have a full time job, E is working more than ever, and somehow everyone grew up overnight.

while you were sleeping/ the babies grew/ the stars shined and the shadows moved/ time flew, the phone rang/ there was a silence when the kitchen sang

It's incredible to look back and see all that we've accomplished, and not accomplished. Like our Trash the Dress session and album which we STILL HAVEN'T DONE omgslackerswesuck. But if you ignore that, we have come a long way. E and I are happily married even though I sometimes feel like we are just "two ships passing in the night" with him getting home just as I'm going to bed. We both adore our fur children and we're doing our best to work towards our future.

while you were sleeping/ the money died/ machines were harmless and the earth sighed /through the wind you slept sound /and gravity caught my love around

 

Since I never wrote a Thanksgiving post this year, I guess I should say that I'm incredibly thankful for everything and everyone who has been a part of this year. I'm thankful that E is my husband and we're still happy after almost 10 years together. That my family and friends are the best you could ever ask for and whom I love dearly. That we have the worlds cutest puppy, see photographic evidence above. I'm thankful that I'm doing a job that makes a difference, and even though it can be stressful, it's the primary vehicle for saving for our future. I don't know where we'd be without this opportunity and I feel so very lucky to have it when the unemployment rates are so high right now. 

while you were sleeping /the time changed /all your things were rearranged /your vampire mirrors face to face /they saw forever out into space /and found you dreaming in black and white /while it rained in all the colors of the night

Whatever holiday(s) you celebrate this year, I hope you have a good one. I hope you and your families are happy and healthy and I hope that the coming year is as good as this one was.

Happy Holidays!

(Song Lyrics: Elvis Perkins - While You Were Sleeping)

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone! Wherever you are I hope you're having a delicious day with good food and even better company!

Meow.