New RE = More Tests

So after waiting over a month for the urology appointment, the Kaiser system worked a little faster and we were able to get in to see the RE on Black Friday. My overall impression of her was positive, she allowed us to share our story and explain where we are and agreed with most of our assumptions and concerns. For me, she ordered more lab work as well as a saline ultrasound and a hysterosalpingogram. For E, another couple lab tests. Once we begin the procedure for IVF, Kaiser will no longer cover anything so she would like to cover all our bases now.

I will have to go in for my labs on Monday and pick up a course of antibiotics for the hysterosalpingogram since E had to get to work on Friday and we didn't have time. The RE said she very rarely has a case where they can't find any reason at all for male infertility and thinks E might have a microdeletion on his Y chromosome. If he does, the location will play a big part in whether we're able to retrieve viable sperm. And, if we can get viable sperm that produces viable embryos, we will have to have PGD to select for female embryos since any male children will inherit the same deletion.

However, given the information we have thus far, it's likely that we're going to have to use a donor. The RE does agree that I have diminished ovarian reserve and is very concerned that we may have a rapidly closing window to retrieve viable eggs. There was also some confusion over my AFC, during the appointment the RE at the fertility clinic told me 3 and 4 follies for a total of 7. However, the paperwork he faxed over said 3 and 7 for a total of 10, which while it would be AMAZING, doesn't match up with my FSH or my memory. Regardless, the new RE is concerned that in a couple years I will not have any eggs left.

Given that prognosis, we need to think seriously about the IVF vs IUI decision. Kaiser would pay for an IUI, which would be much less invasive and inexpensive. If we were successful, it would probably be at least 2 years before we tried for a second child and by then I might be completely out of eggs. If I did still have high quality eggs left for siblings, we would need to store our donor of choice and do IUI again. If we do IVF now, it will be entirely out of pocket, more invasive and expensive, but will hopefully yield enough embryos that we can freeze some and use them for a second and/maybe third child. It would also mean we would have the same donor for all our children since the embryos would all be made at once.

We've been talking back and forth about it and have just started to casually look at donors online. We won't have DH's results for another month since they have to grow the genetic test in culture, but they probably won't be good. In the meantime, the RE wants me to take DHEA three times a day, keep taking a prenatal and see if I can get my thyroid levels down. While all my tests for the past 10 years have been below or around 1,  my last one was 3. Although it's still technically normal, numbers over 2.5 are associated with much higher rates of miscarriage so I'm going to need to do something about that.